Believe it when you see it

I receive tons of inboxes from women about relationships.   I still haven’t figured out why they come to me because I definitely am NOT a relationship guru.  The one thing that I am is candid. I always try to answer as best as I can. This question comes up a lot so I decided to share my views about it.   Everyone always wants to know:

“How can you tell if a man is playing games?”

For those of you who don’t know me personally. I have to give you a little background info on who I am. I have a ton of BLOOD brothers and some really awesome male friends. I actually have more male friends than female friends. I just always seemed to relate to men more. I guess it comes from being a Tom boy as a child. Now when I tell you that I would run to my brothers and good friends and cry on their shoulders and ask this same question. I tell you no lie. The answer would always be the same.

“His actions speak louder than his words.”

When a man sincerely cares for you his actions will ALWAYS and I mean ALWAYS match up to his words. I have been in some really great relationships and some not so great relationships. I promise you that all men are the same when it comes to this.

Please don’t waste any of your precious time banging your head up against a wall trying to figure out the answer for a problem when you have already been shown the solution.

About The Author

Hope McGill grew up in New York City’s famed neighborhood of Harlem. She began writing at the age of sixteen, but her love of literature began as a child. Reading has always been a means of escape for her. Curling up with a good book helped her to explore the world and meet fascinating people. As she grew older, her appetite for reading grew immensely and the books became more diverse. She began to read books such as, J. California Cooper’s, Life Is Short but Wide, Treasure E Blue’s, Harlem Girl Lost, Octavia Butler’s Bloodchild, as well as the classic, Manchild In The Promised Land by Claude Brown.