Hope McGill

Believe it when you see it

I receive tons of inboxes from women about relationships.   I still haven’t figured out why they come to me because I definitely am NOT a relationship guru.  The one thing that I am is candid. I always try to answer as best as I can. This question comes up a lot so I decided to share my views about it.   Everyone always wants to know:

“How can you tell if a man is playing games?”

For those of you who don’t know me personally. I have to give you a little background info on who I am. I have a ton of BLOOD brothers and some really awesome male friends. I actually have more male friends than female friends. I just always seemed to relate to men more. I guess it comes from being a Tom boy as a child. Now when I tell you that I would run to my brothers and good friends and cry on their shoulders and ask this same question. I tell you no lie. The answer would always be the same.

“His actions speak louder than his words.”

When a man sincerely cares for you his actions will ALWAYS and I mean ALWAYS match up to his words. I have been in some really great relationships and some not so great relationships. I promise you that all men are the same when it comes to this.

Please don’t waste any of your precious time banging your head up against a wall trying to figure out the answer for a problem when you have already been shown the solution.